tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28630629182458054202024-02-27T15:09:32.110+08:00Me, and Then SomeI love this!Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.comBlogger362125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-52789356080166455852023-09-21T10:59:00.003+08:002023-09-21T10:59:44.269+08:005th Year Into Fitness Journey: What works<p>Hi yall, </p><p>I suddenly had this weird urge to write. I've just completed a 10 minute HIIT workout, sweating in my tights. </p><p>Anyway for the past 5 years, I've been quite consistent with the workouts. It helps that I'm working by myself, having the luxury to arrange my schedule, at the same time adding workouts to my schedule as if it's part of work. </p><p>Years of tweaking and adjusting and I know what works for me:- </p><p>1. <b>Last heavy meal by 7pm</b> - The only times I break this rule is for family gatherings or date nights. I do have snacks sometimes at night but nothing heavy. </p><p>2. <b>More noodle soups than rice</b> - It helps that I've always loved mi hun sup, kuey tiaw sup, ladna and the variety. I don't miss rice that much. I love noodle soup with lots of veg (the only time I binge on vege variety). I skip rice many times a week with pleasure. </p><p>3. <b>HIIT workouts</b> - I swear on PAMELA REIF's HIIT workouts. Keeps me fit & maintains my weight. I feel GREAT after a HIIT workout. I first started doing them because I needed a workout routine that doesn't take much time. I'm talking about 10 minutes here! I used to only do HIIT workouts 5 times a week but felt like my body needed something else. Hence</p><p>4. <b>Pilates </b>- No, I don't even pay for it. It's all on Youtube! I love Lilly Sabri's workout. You get sore afterwards but over time you feel stronger, tighter and your body feels more sculpted. So I alternate the days of pilates with HIIT excercises. If you feel that this is too much work, imagine me spending 15 minutes TOPS everyday. A tiny chunk of my day but doing it consistently. </p><p>5. <b>No store bought juice in the fridge, order warm water as much as possible when eating out</b> - Basically cut out sugary drinks at home and outside. My only exception and 'treat' is having MILO at home, no added sugar. </p><p>6. <b>Morning park walks </b>- We go to the park as a family every weekend morning, usually 3000-6000 steps. The kids complain but they always finish the track and they get ice-cream afterwards. Sometimes we alternate with hiking trails. </p><p>These are tried and true. Being fit is a lifestyle and especially if you're mom and wife, you have to get your family on board. Luckily hubs is just as committed on his fitness journey, although HIIT and pilates in front youtube is not his thing. So when he wants to go to the gym, sometimes I'll tag along. </p><p>I also hope that our lifestyle rubs off on the kids as they grow older. I can safely say, nowadays the kids seldom gets sick, eats well. The only thing is, I always wish they were chubbier like when they were toddlers but alas you can't have everything can you?</p><p>Moving forward, I'd like to take care of my food intake better, eating more variety of vege and fruits. It's been a challenge because we lead such hurried lives. Fruits and vege don't last long. It's extra effort to go buy fruits and vege every few days and you can't guarantee you'll finish it all before it turns bad. I don't always cook at home, so it's been a challenge to balance healthy eating. </p><p>Also, last May, I fractured my wrist. Was put in a cast for 1.5 months. That prompted me to research brittle bones. As it turns out, our bones lose density as we get older and one type of exercise may help which is weight training. I just bought dumbbells 2 months ago and incorporating weight training into my exercise routine. Weight training is a bit slow and boring for me, personally. I guess it works well in a social setting, but I'm not giving up. </p><p>I would say, it's an effortless effort for me to be fit. If I let myself go, I would definitely gain alot of weight and get out of shape. As you grow older, it's much easier to put on weight so you have to adopt a fit lifestyle somehow. But by having a "lifestyle" you don't actually feel like you're putting in too much effort, it's just daily life if you know what I mean. </p><p>My motivation has always been to be ready whenever a zombie apocalypse comes. I need to be able to sustain running, jumping, and eating little. It's a joke but not really. Last December, we felt an earthquake from our apartment. Me and my daughter ran down 18 stairs and it wasn't a big deal. That's what I mean. </p><p>My body has to be ready for anything that can happen in this crazy world. </p><p>So there, if you made it to the end, thanks for reading and all the best to your fitness journey. </p><p>Do you have a fitness routine? Share your thoughts <3</p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-5233500297532474092020-09-02T00:17:00.001+08:002020-09-02T00:17:08.629+08:00Dreams and then some<p>It's like 11.54pm at the moment. Lately, I've been sleeping late and waking up with panda eyes which is not good for Instagram close-ups. Yup, I'm thinking about stuff like that now. What a far cry from the days of sarong the whole day. </p><p>I guess life changes in a split second. You have to savour every moment. </p><p>You also have to make firm decisions that would propel you into a new life. Five years later, you'll thank the day you decided to make exercise part of your morning routine. You'll thank the day you pick up the camera and start sharing on youtube. You'll thank the day you started consciously avoiding things with an extensive carbon footprint. You'll thank the day you tentatively invested a little amount in the stock market. </p><p>If you have dreams, it's easy to take the next step that would support it. It's never comfortable but it will feel purposeful and necessary. </p><p>When I started out on social media, I didn't know which language to write in. I felt comfortable expressing myself in english but I'm aware that I would alienate the people who needed the knowledge the most. So I decided to brush up on my awkward bahasa and punch through. OK PUN. As they say. It might still be awkward but who cares. The important thing is that I'm conveying my message clearly.</p><p>I also wished that I could hide behind words and continue blogging forever. But if we don't get out of our comfort zone to do what is required, others will and then take away our dreams too. </p><p>I look at Bill & Melinda Gates with their philanthropic work. Simply inspiring. I could listen to him talk about eradicating Ebola & infectious diseases all day. He changed the world via tech and philanthropy. And managing to be humble.</p><p>If there's something we should be good at, it should be something we're already doing. I'm hoping that one day, my kids will say "mommy & daddy" as their inspiration. </p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-2501193946111699352020-08-13T11:27:00.005+08:002020-09-08T21:52:00.024+08:00How To Have Healthy Weight and Keep Fit After 3 Kids As of today, I weigh 51 KG at 157cm. Not exactly thin, but not over the normal limits in BMI. <div>I have maintained this weight for the past 8 years. Before that, my weight hovered around 47-48kg so, I was never overweight. </div><div><br /></div><div>I realize that people say this has something to do with genetics and I agree to some point. However, I believe if I let loose, I would gain weight as easily as anybody. </div><div><br /></div><div>Maintaining healthy weight is a mentality and a lifestyle, not using quick tricks which will take you nowhere. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>There are a few things that changes once you have children: </b></div><div><b><br /></b></div><div>1) Body fat distribution. This one is a wonder. Your fat stores are used in ways you never imagine. One day you wake up with a butt, one day it's gone. One day, it's back but it looks different. If you've had children you'll know. </div><div><br /></div><div>2) Body posture. This one creeps up on you. At first, I didn't notice, then one day I caught my self in the mirror and I became conscious of it. After carrying children for 10+10+10 months, your posture suffers and there's that tendency to slouch. </div><div><br /></div><div>3) Muscle tone. I believe I lost muscle tone after my three pregnancies, although I'm not sure that's due to age or because of pregnancies. </div><div><br /></div><div>I think I spoke about it before. After my third pregnancy, I felt like a blob. And I had to find myself, so I started exercising intentionally. I started consistently in January 2019. One year and half in. </div><div><br /></div><div>Exercise is a huge part of giving me a confidence boost, so much that I didn't care how much I weigh anymore, simply because I was feeling really good about my body. I was strong and toned at the height of my consistency. </div><div><br /></div><div>The second part goes to food. A few things that we maintain as a family that I think helps ALOT in maintaining my weight (and hubs actually!) so far. </div><div><br /></div><div>- When we got married in 2011, me and hubs decided that we will eat dinner before 7pm. And no food afterwards except snacks like bread etc. I'm proud to say that we have maintained this until now. We don't get hungry after 7pm because we're just so used to it. </div><div><br /></div><div>Although when I was breastfeeding, I did have heavy supper. Later I found out 'intermittent fasting' which has a similar concept of limiting eating time. </div><div><br /></div><div>- Starting with our first daughter, we eliminated sugary drinks and juice from our fridge. Yes, we had a very logical discussion about it, looking back. We maintain this until now. </div><div><br /></div><div>- I drink only plain water. When indulging, only ordering half-sugar. Your taste buds will adjust and think everything else is too sweet. </div><div><br /></div><div>- I do have a sweet tooth for desserts and chocolates. But I balance it out by not taking sweet drinks. </div><div><br /></div><div>- I have always been a slow eater. But looks like it's in my favor now! <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/2016/11/09/we-found-out-if-it-really-takes-20-minutes-to-feel-full_a_21602736/" target="_blank">Did you know that it takes 20 minutes for your brain to register being full? </a> </div><div><br /></div><div>- I also avoid fried food whenever eating out. </div><div><br /></div><div>So, my tips may sound mundane and simple. But maintaining it long term is the real key. </div><div><br /></div><div>We started adding on new good habits like, always having a banana at home. </div><div><br /></div><div>One more important thing is that your family must also adopt this change, otherwise it'll be hard to maintain the lifestyle if you're the only one drinking plain water all the time. </div><div><br /></div><div>EDIT: </div><div>- The goal is never to be slim. But to be fit and healthy, thus the title of this blog post. There's no point of starving and not being able to enjoy life but to take a wholesome and moderate way of keeping fit. </div><div><br /></div><div>I would like to swim, run and hop with my children, and hopefully my grandchildren. I don't want health to be an issue as I grow older. As you know, being overweight contributes to a plethora of health problems including diabetes, high blood pressure, hormonal imbalances. There's alot more, you name it. </div><div><br /></div><div>My next step would be to take care of our food. After MCO, I have a huge urge to eat home cook meals only. And making sure there's alot of anti-oxidant fruits at home. </div><div><br /></div><div>Lately, my daughter has been requesting nuts. Even I don't eat nuts for fun. But let me just say this, eating healthy and taking care of your health rubs off on children as well. 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Oh boy does the year go by really fast. </p><p>I've hardly had time to process what was happening. There's a lot of disappointment career-wise this year, many things didn't go like it was supposed to. But what am I talking about, some people around the world are starving from the lockdown so who am I to complain. </p><p>When things get tough, all you have to do is keep swimming. (Dory's voice appearing in my head)</p><p>I'm doing something new this year, which is quite exciting.</p><p>All your life, you've thought of yourself as one thing but I'm good at proving people wrong. I had been laughed at in the past for my presentations because I FREEZE. That's what I do during presentations. Literally. </p><p>So when the agency bosses invited me to share my story with new recruits, I said yes and tried to dissociate myself from the past. And I'm happy to have shared my story twice this year and one time via zoom. </p><p>It might not be a big deal to other people but it definitely is a challenge for me. </p><p>I've also started a youtube channel as a marketing avenue for my real estate work. Finally took the plunge. We'll see where does this go. </p><p>2020.. to the year of challenge, pivot and growth. Half way there!</p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-30463801551467466602020-04-02T23:13:00.001+08:002020-04-02T23:13:30.280+08:00DAY 16 Movement Control Order Covid19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Today is an especially hard day. I tried to be productive by updating my website but with 3 kids running around it's just impossible. I really lost my temper today with the kids. It's not really their fault, they have been stuck indoors for 16 days.<br />
<br />
Yesterday we received all the toys I ordered from lazada. I figured it will keep them distracted for a while. Honestly I was never one who likes buying more stuff for the kids. In fact, their toys are quite minimal.. and we do toys rotation every few weeks. However, staying home and not going out for 2 weeks does things to you so I caved and bought them those toys.<br />
<br />
I don't think it works any better than giving them a cardboard box to decorate. In fact, playing with cups, decorating cardboard boxes and drawing with youtube keeps them occupied longer.<br />
<br />
I was mulling over the idea of sending my son to my parents who are 5 minutes away. We'll see how that goes.<br />
<br />
The days are up and down. Some days are productive, some days are just a downer, but I notice it to be worse when I don't start the day with a 10-15 minute family exercise.<br />
<br />
I really hope the mco will be over by 14 April. I really miss going to work, seeing people and some semblance of normal life. Take care everybody, let's flatten the curve.<br />
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Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-51260831518727239192020-03-30T22:35:00.000+08:002020-03-30T22:35:35.483+08:00DAY 14 Movement Control Order COVID 19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I believe we need to thrive no matter in what situation we're in. We as humans, the strong ones pivot and adapt to changes. And I believe that's what we need to do. I foresee a difficult unknown future.<br />
<br />
In the immediate future,<br />
what would working be like?<br />
what would Ramadan be like?<br />
what would Raya be like?<br />
would we be able to hold big events again?<br />
How long will this go on?<br />
<br />
Just thinking about it and listening to the news makes you really anxious.<br />
<br />
I've started reading quran in the morning again.<br />This is definitely a test and how do you fare?<br />
Only god knows what will happen, and the only logical thing to do now is to turn to god.<br />
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Confide in him about your fears, about your anxiety.<br />
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We don't know anything about how things will pan out and I think I've accepted that. That's not going to change. This might go on for a long time, which we also don't know.<br />
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I'm ready for all possibilities.<br />
<br />
Be strong everyone, we're in for a bumpy ride.<br />
<br /></div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-56062635095230672342020-03-29T13:50:00.002+08:002020-03-29T13:50:37.260+08:00DAY 12 Movement Control Order Covid 19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The hardest part of the movement control order is to keep the kids occupied because if they're not, they'll be fighting like cats and dogs.<br />
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It's easy to be fixated on our lives within the small four walls everyday but I keep reminding myself that this catastrophe is bigger than all of us.<br />
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I cannot imagine running a business and having to close down for a month. Yet, still having to pay rent and workers wage. I know my previous business wouldn't have survived.<br />
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Me and hubs are bracing ourselves for a longer control order. We need to work on what we have now rather than thinking about going back to our normal. Otherwise it'll be depressing.<br />
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I've been throwing myself into analyzing stocks. When I'm obsessed, I'm obsessed.<br />
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I'm grateful for being in a position to help rather than be helped.<br />
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I'm grateful for my family<br />
I'm grateful for my apartment<br />
I'm grateful for cat<br />
I'm grateful for my work<br />
I'm grateful for my dryer<br />
I'm grateful for my notebook<br />
I'm grateful for the internet<br />
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I'm grateful to those working so hard on the front lines while we get to be safe and warm in our homes.<br />
I'm grateful for our new rulers<br />
I'm grateful for those working hard from home, teaching people their knowledge for free<br />
I'm grateful for having food to eat.<br />
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Take care and stay safe everyone.<br />
We can get through this! </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0Cheras, 56000 Kuala Lumpur, Federal Territory of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia3.1068447 101.72591973.0909892 101.70574970000001 3.1227001999999997 101.7460897tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-44013089469643004692020-03-27T00:28:00.002+08:002020-03-27T00:31:16.779+08:00DAY 9 Movement Control Order Covid-19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
3 days ago, hubs tested negative for covid19. That's a weight off my shoulder, especially when I started sniffling and coughing too.<br />
<br />
Turns out its just a normal nasty cold.<br />
<br />
The days are normalizing. I don't even have to think about what I'll do. It's now almost a routine. Either me or hubs will wake up to make the kids' milk. Then we'll do chore dance effortlessly. If he did the milk, then I start breakfast, feed the kids.<br />
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The kids will then shower for 10-15 minutes, usually a bubble bath request.<br />
It's a simple mark in the day. Shower in the morning to start the day. Shower in the evening to end the day.<br />
<br />
Yesterday I decided to start making more video content. I don't usually know how to ramble on for a long time because my monologue is in my head. However, no time is better than now to learn rambling about nothing!<br />
<br />
I'm starting to form this routine in my house:<br />
<br />
wake up, solat<br />
make milk<br />
read quran<br />
make breakfast & feed kids while watching Property brothers or anything on HGTV<br />
shower<br />
give kids shower<br />
Hubs start work via video conference<br />
tidy up house<br />
exercise with kid's video choice<br />
Whatsapp time with friends/ family/ clients<br />
<br />
<br />
===== 10.30am by this time<br />
<br />
Do some kind of activity with kids,<br />
usually to give them a choice.. artwork or toy rotation<br />
sneak away after playing with them for 30 minutes<br />
Start my work - more content creation & breaks in between to handle kids<br />
Kids watch TV or play games on the ipad<br />
<br />
===== 2pm<br />
<br />
The boys nap for an hour<br />
I'll read a book/latest news browsing during this quiet time<br />
Order food or cook food<br />
Obsessively browse latest world happenings<br />
Whatsapp time with friends/ family/ clients<br />
Let kids active play, jump run, physical activity<br />
<br />
=====7pm<br />
<br />
dinner<br />
kids shower<br />
final kids tv show<br />
make milk<br />
brush kids teeth<br />
Kids bedtime<br />
<br />
======8.30-9pm<br />
<br />
By day 9, the situation is getting bad out there but I'm very confident with the way the government is handling things. It's starting to make me feel safe. BNM just announced a 6 month automatic moratorium on all loans which is huge for the country. </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-64663655344036295232020-03-21T17:43:00.000+08:002020-03-21T17:43:14.779+08:00DAY 4 Movement Control Order Covid 19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I cooked breakfast as usual today. Bread is finished. We bought two loaves before MCO and it's gone because my kids constantly munches on bread at home. Online Tesco order is full for the next week, so I have to go out get it by myself.<br />
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I went to the first 99speedmart but bread is out of stock. Okay, very convenient. So I went to another 99 speedmart. Also gone. One of the shopkeepers told me people fight over bread when the lorry sends them in the morning. I asked, "EVERY MORNING?" "Yup."<br />
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Un-be-lie-vable.<br />
<br />
If it doesn't feel like an apocalypse already, that seals it. We rely on bread. I rely on bread. More than rice because rice is everywhere but bread is scarce.<br />
<br />
So I went home with a plastic full of buns, cake and biscuits. I still have fish meat and fruits at home.<br />
<br />
Had a covid19 gossip session with friends over whatsapp.<br />
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The kids made a mess, today is no exception but I let them. What else are they supposed to do?<br />
<br />
I did some paperwork in the morning and completely forgot that it's saturday. <br />
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It started raining at 2pm all the way to 5pm and the whole family nap together. It's been awhile since we did that because we are hardly ever home during weekends.<br />
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So far, I've been consistent on exercise this week, I think I need it to keep myself going. I did abs, legs and full body the past 3 days and the kids joined too.<br />
<br />
Before the whole MCO, I have to admit that I didn't read any updates on the virus, only preferring to listen to the official sources. Funny when you're on restriction order, you simply gobble up every piece of coronavirus news fake or genuine and completely psyche yourself up. <br />
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There are moments that I simply take a step back and tell myself grounding statements. This too shall pass. covid 19 is like any virus out there. Be healthy and take care of your mental well-being.<br />
<br />
Towards the end of day 4, I miss freedom ultimately but at the same time, it isn't too bad because I'm forced sloww dowwn. Everyday is gift and I'm taking it.<br />
<br /></div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0Cheras, 56000 Kuala Lumpur, Federal Territory of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia3.1068447 101.72591973.0909892 101.70574970000001 3.1227001999999997 101.7460897tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-29200096662729333372020-03-19T18:07:00.000+08:002020-03-19T18:08:19.360+08:00DAY 2 Movement Control Order COVID19<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I don't think I'm the only one thrown by the sudden movement restriction order. It came suddenly as the Covid 19 spread like wildfire out of nowhere. In January, we decided to plan a holiday in March with another family.<br />
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The news of a new coronavirus appeared one week after we've booked our flights and accommodation. So we were very 50-50 on that turning into a reality. However, near the end of March, the cases remained stagnant below 100. I decided to tell Naila that we're going ahead and we started counting down the days on the calendar.<br />
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The cases then spiked to 30, 41 then 190 a day. I knew we had to cancel then. In the midst of cancelling, our new PM announced that we're having a movement restriction order for two weeks with only one day to prepare.<br />
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At the moment of announcement it felt like our lives were upended. I never do things half-heartedly. This mama is staying in with her family indoors for 2 weeks. Yes it's happening. Basically everything must be closed down except for essential services. So our week sitting in begins, and we're not supposed to even leave the house to go to the playground downstairs.<br />
<br />
At times like these, I WISHED we're staying at a landed home. So I could at least let the children out to play in the compound.<br />
<br />
Let's be real, 3 small hyper active kids under house arrest is not ideal.<br />
<br />
Plus husband & I are supposed to work. One day before MCO, hubs came back and said his colleague sitting beside him was suspected of covid19. Then hubs started feeling unwell. I called the covid 19 hotline but was greeted by a really sleepy officer who told me that they will not do testing unless his friend is a confirmed suspect.<br />
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So there's that. Too much to process in a day. I think I thrive on routines. When the routine is disrupted I feel really lost. I know I'm supposed to wing it like many many others out there but it feels unnerving. I've never read so much covid 19 news as much as the past 2 days and it's easy to feel a little doomed.<br />
<br />
Real estate and stock market are talking about a bear market. This is inevitable. This will be the first real recession I'll be going through as an adult. It's scary. My whatsapp hasn't stopped pinging from covid 19 updates from ALL groups. It's unnerving. I can't stop scrolling looking for answers from more experienced people in the industry and they're hopeful of a light at the end of the tunnel.<br />
<br />
Yesterday was a somewhat productive day in terms of nurturing the kids. I distracted myself by cooking, cleaning up the house by mopping every few hours because you know, kids. I even finished editing a home tour video.<br />
<br />
Hubs was literally out cold the whole day yesterday. Like he didn't wake up in the morning and continued sleeping until evening. I checked his temperature but it was fine. Last night he finally woke up and we ate instant noodles and watched the titans.<br />
<br />
I woke up this morning in a blur. Like, what am I going to do today to entertain my family? I cannot let them watch tv all day. They've already finished the new puzzles and coloring books I've bought them. I'm supposed to get back to work.<br />
<br />
I made pancakes for breakfast and announced that I don't want to cook anymore for the rest of the day. Hubs woke up this morning, announced that he's doing SO MUCH BETTER today. He took 2 pieces of pancakes and said your pancakes are good. And went straight to Skype meeting with his colleagues.<br />
<br />
MEN.<br />
<br />
He takes care of the kids and even housework but somehow I'm shouldering the responsibility in terms of activities, what to eat, kids well-being. And I panic if I don't work. As we go into MCO, I realize that my situation is vulnerable. I'm not supposed to go out for viewing. And if there's no viewing and meeting people, then there's no close. No close, no salary no money.<br />
<br />
There's no guidelines as to what to do in a situation like this. That's why I'm going back to writing. When in doubt, write.<br />
<br />
Today the covid 19 cases is at 110. No signs of going down yet. First 2 deaths happened yesterday. I hope everyone is finding solace that we're all going through this together. Stay safe & stay home guys! </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-38248991205922640362020-01-07T23:05:00.000+08:002020-01-07T23:05:02.283+08:00Feet In the Ground<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
In my twenties, I was so focused on my own problems. Going into 30s, It finally dawned on me that everyone has real struggles, most times even more so than me. And also sometimes, the world feels bleak, especially when you read too much news. I don't really read the news anymore. Except property updates and the only time I actually listen to the live news is during the budget presentation.<br />
<br />
I'm slowly getting a sense of self again, finally emerging from the fog of diapers. Sometimes I don't know who I am and how am I supposed to act. I feel so young inside after going through everything. I'm still hopeful and I can see the person I used to be before the kids.<br />
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I think it's so important to retain a sense of self when you're going through tough times. I'm not talking tough times as in raising children, but a culmination of what happened in the past few years. It's so important not to be fearful and continue to let passion drive you. I'm hoping that the dark days made me wiser. At the time I remain positive and still willing to try new things.<br />
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That's why it's such a hoot to meet arrogant punks once in a while. My head is reeling with comments such as, "you've NEVER fallen, just wait. And you'll never be the same again."<br />
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Always be humble, keep your feet in the ground. Dig in and bury your feet even. If the slightest arrogance creep into your head, punch it dead.<br />
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p/s: It's funny I talk alot in my head. But it takes so much effort to talk alot in real life.<br />
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<br /></div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-51504518639949891112020-01-04T22:57:00.000+08:002020-01-04T22:57:45.727+08:00Brainy Bunch Mahkota Cheras Kindergarten Review <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<i>*Disclaimer: This review is based on our personal experience and opinions only. It does not reflect others opinion, as everyone can have a completely different view based on different needs. Also brace yourself for a long post. </i><br />
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So where we left off in my post 2 years ago was that I enrolled Naila into Brainy Bunch Mahkota Cheras, at the time, a newly opened branch. After reviewing other options, me and hubs really liked the Brainy Bunch concept.. Montessori and all that.<br />
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The classrooms were attractive and fun to look at. We also learned that they teach classes in mixed-age groups which I thought was unique.<br />
<br />
First, to talk about what I expected from Naila in 2 years.<br />
I wanted her to:<br />
<br />
1. make friends<br />
2. be able to communicate with teachers (not scared etc)<br />
3. be exposed to Islamic values with a progressive and modern approach.<br />
4. to have a fun learning experience<br />
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<b>PROS </b><br />
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In 2 years, did Brainy Bunch reach my expectations? I'm going to answer with a simple yes. There were hiccups and challenges without a doubt, but the end result is beyond what I expected in some aspects.<br />
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Naila was 5 when she joined Brainy Bunch. I asked the usual question "anything interesting happen today in school? Did you have fun?" She always has stories to tell.<br />
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In the first year, I noticed that there was a period of time that she refused going to school. She was really upset on some days. The teachers would say nothing out of the ordinary. So I prodded Naila a little bit. Then I found out that she was feeling a little bit left out because "she doesn't know how to read her ABCs and 123s" whereas her friends who started early from 4 years old are already well versed.<br />
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She was so stressed about being left behind and even cried about not wanting to go to school.<br />
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At that time, I met with teachers and discussed about Naila. I feel that the teachers really took into consideration the things I shared with them and Naila's mood improved considerably from then on. Naila has the tendency to clamp up in fear of being wrong. I just honestly said, I can't do it but I hope that you're patient with her and try to encourage her to keep trying. The teachers took it in stride.<br />
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Honestly throughout the year when she was 5, I wasn't worrying about her reading and math because I knew she could do it once she's ready. But she did slowly started to hafaz some surahs and sometimes she'd read her zikir while playing.<br />
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By the time she was 6, most parents concern was about being able to read. I can tell you that by the end of the year, she progressed by leaps and bounds and she had been reading Enid Blyton books herself during the school holidays. She was also doing well in math, doing addition and subtraction. She's started memorizing the timetables for multiplication.<br />
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I know some parents in other Brainy bunch schools took their kids out and put them in intensive maths and reading classes. It's a pity because honestly, kids will eventually grasp reading and math when the time comes, but they seldom get to learn in an immersive Islamic environment where they learn to pray together, and being taught Islamic values on a daily basis that it becomes second nature.<br />
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Anyway, by the time Naila was 6, I knew that she loved the science activities in class and she looked forward to it. She had good friends and aunties (teachers in brainy bunch) reported that Naila is doing well in school.<br />
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At home, she's a loving sister to her 2 younger brothers, always helping out. She's physically active and gets bored easily.<br />
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Which brings us to the cons.<br />
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<b>CONS</b><br />
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Naila was in the full day program which means that she stays there until 6. She often complains her day is boring because after 12 there isn't much to do. She told me that she couldn't "run and play" and having to sit down and do quiet activities. She also complains about having to "nap" even though she doesn't want to.<br />
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At night, she goes to sleep at 8.30pm, therefore I didn't think the nap was necessary for some kids, although I understand that they probably needed some quiet time. Teachers allow her to lie down quietly without having to nap, provided she doesn't disturb others.<br />
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One of the things that me and hubs complain about since she was 5 is the management of sports day, school trips and concert. First, we had to pay an extra RM100 for each extra event which we wouldn't mind if other points are addressed. Second, the Brainy Bunch HQ lumped many schools together during these extra events and always held it at Cyberjaya. Frankly the experience for us parents aren't very good.<br />
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<b>What I didn't like about them: </b><br />
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1. The sports day isn't very competitive. I'd have preferred traditional games such as running, gunny sack, even ping pong in a spoon. Or anything that made the kids sweat and maybe shout. It's called a sports day after all. Both years, the kids were smiling shyly while going through the intensively built course that's overly safe and not competitive.<br />
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I expected the kids to at least fall down on their knees, or run helter skelter. But alas, at the end of the course, they're all dry and gets to collect a medal. I'd prefer them to be all out of breath and dirty marks on their knees and maybe crying. Or am I just being extreme here? There's also no parading around the field. I don't like the segmentation and the parents lined up all the way blocking each others view. Frankly, I don't like the sports day at all. It wasn't a good experience for us parents and worst of all, the kids couldn't care less.<br />
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2. We opted out for school trip when Naila was 6. Because we didn't want to pay RM100 for a trip to a place we didn't know about. I expected trips to the zoo. The petting zoo. The fire station. Something along those lines perhaps.<br />
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3. The concert day was too long for 3 hours. We were surrounded by so many food and toy vendors. It felt like a trap we couldn't escape from. We loved watching her perform and Mahkota Cheras performance was so outstanding that us parents can't stop raving about it on whatsapp group afterwards. Credits to the dedicated teachers who tirelessly trained the kids every day. However it was too long by combining 3-4 school performance at once. Again it wasn't a good experience for us parents, especially when we also have smaller children to take care of.<br />
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We stood by the school particularly for it's environment, dedicated teachers and Naila's friends. We closed our eyes to the Brainy Bunch HQ bureaucracy and some things we didn't agree on. At the end of the day, Naila only sees her teachers and friends everyday and we only occasionally have to go through the other things.<br />
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So do I recommend Brainy Bunch Mahkota Cheras? Resounding yes. Naila experienced the things I expected and academically, she's ready for standard 1.<br />
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Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-54740710843669117552019-12-26T16:34:00.000+08:002019-12-26T16:34:18.021+08:00You Won't Be Able to Stop Time Even If You Want To<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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So this is the year that Naila starts her standard one. I can't believe I've been a mom for 6 years! 6 years since my life changed forever and having to be an adult. Before long, my two boys are going to follow suit. Oh please slow down time!<br />
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I'm going to miss my boys saying "I Loove Mommy! Love Mommy!" before going to sleep. I'm going to miss Naila say "I want 3 kisses." Yes! they do that every single day. And it makes me laugh that lately, Ibrahim's way of softening a blow when he wrecked something is by starting with "I loove mommy" out of a sudden.<br />
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Life is fleeting, kids are tiring but wonderful.<br />
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And though they're very young, I try to be as transparent with them as possible. Naila's starting to rationalize and is a keen observer, so I keep my explanations honest and simple. Sometimes she gives her own explanations and I get dumbfounded by how insightful she is. I'm like, I'm raising a smart kid... I have to buck up.<br />
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The other day, she asks, "why does Allah let good people die." It took me a second to answer that.<br />
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Where to enroll for standard one is one big question after preschool. She's had such head start by attending Brainy Bunch for 2 years and it's such a pity to not continue her studies in that direction. All the surah's, the ideology, the theories, stories, is something that I can never teach her alone. So this is the responsibility that me and hubs are taking for her. We enrolled her in a private islamic elementary school which I might share about later.<br />
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As of now, I'm enjoying the December slow down, cuti-cuti Malaysia and all that. Looking forward to a new year full of challenges and possibilities. </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-25461184430539619432019-10-14T11:54:00.000+08:002019-10-14T11:54:35.260+08:00Mental Health Well-being<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I blogged about starting to exercise before. By now, I've made it a commitment to do it every single day except the weekend. The things that it does for my overall well-being is just short of amazing.<br />
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I don't know how to NOT make this sound like an advert but gosh. I just needed to say something somewhere. When I say exercise, it's actually short 10-20 mins bursts of HIIT. So it's quick, intense but so so effective.<br />
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So my morning routine goes like this:-<br />
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6.45/7am - Wake up, gets kids ready for kindy & daycare, breakfast<br />
7.15am - Hubs send oldest to kindy & goes to work<br />
8.30am - Send the toddlers to daycare<br />
9am - Reach home, vacuum the house, feed cat, water plants, feed fish & tiny home touch ups<br />
9.30am - Start HIIT. I LOVE Pamela Reif's<br />
10am - Short shower<br />
10.15am - Start work<br />
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I've been doing it consistently almost everyday since early of the year. I don't even think about my weight anymore because doing this, you get toned up so you don't really care anymore. Most days, I work on abs because hello three kids really mess up your middle! But yeah omg if you work on it everyday, you start seeing the muscles toning up and you start losing anything extra.<br />
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Plus it's so motivating when you start seeing some parts shrinking and lifted!<br />
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It sounds so simple, I started with 10 mins only, but the key word is EVERYDAY. Well, weekends for me is impossible because kids climb on me when I'm planking, so no thank you.<br />
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On the days that laziness start creeping in, I quickly remind myself that I have this amazing time in the world that I didn't have just one year ago. If I'm not using this time to get in shape, then what useless piece of meat am I? I choose to work flexible hours so I get to do things I can't normally do if I work 9-5. So I do have lazy days but I'm happy to say to I've been fairly consistent.<br />
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What's the aftermath besides feeling fit? Being in my line of work, you tend to get more rejections than yesses, so being fit also helps me feel a lot more positive. You also get less tired and more energetic. You sleep well.<br />
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I don't know if this is a plus, because you have to spend money (!) but I've swung from S size to M size but now definitely back to true S size.. so alot of my M sized clothes are baggy on my frame now.<br />
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So there you have it.. some of my friends have commented that I looked the same from uni days, but it isn't true because if you've gone through pregnancy, giving birth and nursing (x3) you are definitely NOT the same. It's a conscious effort to keep fit and to control eating habits. But I'll share that next time. </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-84791346239261632202019-09-12T17:47:00.000+08:002019-09-12T17:47:41.707+08:00Raising Daughter <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Do you have a goal for your kids? Sometimes I look at my kids and wonder, is it enough to feed and clothe them. Is it enough to expect they will learn something by looking at us?<br />
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I admit the first years of their lives is extremely tiring. Any plans you had about anything can be thrown out the window because you can barely think most of the time. I fought hard to work past the maternal fog in the beginning and it slowly cleared without me noticing it.<br />
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Now I'm back to 100% in terms of brain power, I'm pretty sure. Then I realized that I've been on autopilot for so long that I barely planned anything for my kids, which pretty much deviated from my original parenthood dreams.<br />
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The time is now to change though.<br />
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Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-83115402181228986062019-07-06T23:36:00.001+08:002019-09-03T22:49:30.438+08:00Annual Krabi Trip<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I've never been one with perfect porcelain skin ever. In fact, I'm that person who struggles with imperfect, blemished skin since I was 14. My skin is high maintenance and sensitive. My best skin record was when I was on Accutane in uni.. imagine that. Second best was during all my pregnancies, funny enough!<br />
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So entering 30s, I don't know what to expect. And because I've always had difficult skin, I really make it a point to wear sunscreen at least, everyday. But after giving birth to Hassan, I noticed my skin had red blotches that never went away. This birth, coincides with me turning 30, so I don't know whether it's because of my third pregnancy or is it just me turning 30.<br />
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Another thing I dislike about my skin is the pores. I naturally have big pores man. They get clogged so easily. How I long to have baby skin like my babies! But alas...<br />
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So this year I started looking for serums and lotions and whatever that could improve my skin's overall appearance. I'm currently taking vitamin C. That's not much but it's better than not taking anything, right? Plus vitamin C is an anti-oxidant. Anti-oxidants slow down or stop the processes that damage the cells in our body.<br />
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My plan is to actually attack this skin problem inside and out. The vitamin C was the "inside".<br />
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On the outside, I found this skincare range The Ordinary which like it's name, is very basic, and each product is a no-frills active ingredient that works directly to correct a specific the skin problem. I like it so far, I can see minor improvement on my skin. It doesn't break out my skin, so that's good. I just have to be consistent using it I guess.<br />
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Then, most recently, I thought of sheet masks. Actually, me and hubs were watching a Shark Tank episode where someone was pitching a sheet mask when it occurred... to hubs. He was like, "how come you never tried sheet masks? You're always complaining about your skin yada yada."<br />
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So I went to Watson's and just FOUND OUT that there's a whole section dedicated to JUST sheet masks. I'm so left behind! Apparently the korean skin care craze is currently hitting Malaysian shores and sheet masks are part of them. They're also so cheap! RM10 for 4 pieces really?? Well it depends on the brand but the pharmacist showed me two of their popular brands.. one is Dr Morita and another one is Noblesse.<br />
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I'm using Noblesse because they're dirt cheap but I get to use it 4-5 times a week. Have to say.. I love these sheet masks! They actually brightened up my skin and those red blotches I was talking about? They slowly fade away with each mask I use. Unbelievable.<br />
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Which made me think... so all this while my skin problem is dehydration? I guess so, I've always thought it's something to do with the sun exposure.<br />
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For now, these are my staples. And I will continue using them because they make my skin feel so good! </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-51841481756278156982019-02-24T22:58:00.000+08:002019-02-24T22:58:45.218+08:00Shut Up and Drive<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I'm usually quiet outside, unless there's something to say, by which I'm quite outspoken. You know, like issues. Lately I don't know who I am.. it seems like I'm morphing but I don't know into what yet. I believe our trials & tribulations really shape you to be your current self and I'm still discovering what I am. </div>
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Watching my kids grow, I'm convinced of something. That we inherit personalities and tendencies. Like my 2nd born Ibrahim, who is a dead ringer of my husband. Nobody taught him to walk like <i>that </i>or behave like <i>that</i>. A tendency that I have since little is being a little feminist. Like trying to prove that girls can do this and that.. a little bit of female empowerment and encouraging other girls to do the same. </div>
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So that's interesting. I believe to be successful you have to go with the flow of what drives you. It's not easier, but it helps when things get tough. Because your inner drive is forcing you to go forward even when the odds are against you. </div>
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My life challenge has always been about proving myself worthy. It's funny, but my fear has always been that I become a nobody. When I was 8.. I remember our math teacher coming into the classroom to announce that we're having a congak test that day. We weren't prepped beforehand.. I did miserably.. It was for timetables 2 and 3. I scored 2/15 or something like that. </div>
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I was so scarred that I remember the incident like it was yesterday. The fear of getting the answers wrong, and the fear of scoring last in the class! The dread, the horror. </div>
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It was this incident that made me so intent on becoming an "A" math student. Just to prove that I'm not stupid and I can do math. And yes I also went on to do engineering, which again comes down to proving I'm not stupid in math. I STILL have trouble with congak. I get flustered if anyone asks me 34+59 on the spot. The struggle is real people. </div>
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But after graduating uni, that's when I decided that I'm done proving my worthiness in math. Yes it sounds ridiculous but that was also why I NEVER applied even one engineering job after graduating. I went straight into sales & marketing. </div>
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So I'm just curious, what drives you to do what you're doing? Is it fear? Is it burning desire for something? </div>
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Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-31416415909798115842019-02-19T01:24:00.000+08:002019-02-19T01:24:17.545+08:00STTN Baby<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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When you're a mom of three, a few things that really matters to us just seem weird to other people. We say words like STTN, SAHM, WAHM. Like yay finally STTN! Anyway, my kids aren't fully STTN or Sleeping Through The Night. Why is this so important? Because when you get woken up a few times at night for the past 2 years literally, you kinda look forward to it.<br />
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One thing I notice about having two kids so close in age.. is one would be getting over one stage.. and the other would suddenly enter that particular stage. So it's like dealing with a prolonged stage. It's wonderful and chaotic.<br />
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So Ibrahim has gotten all his teeth.. and stopped waking up at night, he sleeps like a log now. Hassan on the other hand, has started the waking-up-screaming phase, which is a mixture of tooth growth and nightmares.<br />
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We tried putting Naila to sleep in a separate room, but sometimes she ends up disrupting us in the middle of the night. Seriously feels like we never left the newborn stage at night! I'm still waking up a few times to calm Hassan down.<br />
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But one good thing is that they know how to put themselves to sleep. A few months ago, I almost got into a depression because I was sleeping at 9pm every night. Yes. Totally depressed for sleeping early. It'll be nice if it was my choice.. but it wasn't. I was putting the kids to sleep and I fell asleep accidentally because the bed was cool, and soft and I'm normally already tired at the end of the day.<br />
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What I did was to dig back all my materials on self soothing. Yes it's very controversial and many people don't agree with it, but if it draws the line between happy and insanity, you might wanna give it a try.<br />
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And once it worked, sanity restored 100%. I had my leisure night time again. I'll share some best practices for self soothing some other time but it seriously saved my life.<br />
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Hassan is 1.5 years now.. he should be fully STTN by the time he's 2-ish. Basically it's another year. I can do this! </div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-24920176625097889932018-12-31T22:11:00.001+08:002019-02-19T01:25:50.651+08:002019 and Burpees<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I started becoming serious about exercise/working out since last year, after giving birth to Hassan my third. At the time, I felt like I lost myself physically and emotionally. I didn't recognize myself in the mirror. I was outwardly fine, but I had inner demons. Exercise helped me a lot.. improved my mood. Made me happy to see fat shrinking and everything tightening up.<br />
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Along the way, I slowed down, started feeling useless then started back. The body does not bounce back after 2 consecutive pregnancies I tell ya. It's hard work and diet. And you have to keep reminding yourself to correct your posture, because after literally being pregnant for 2 years, you just get used to slumping. It's all the nursing, the bump-carrying and the baby carrying.<br />
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Yeah I'm so jealous of my husband because he doesn't understand how much my body is being used! It's something that husbands will never understand. It's the mom's inner circle secret. And by the way, having the first child at 26 vs 3rd child at 30 doesn't sound like much difference but OWH the difference it makes. 1st child was a breeeze.<br />
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Anyway, point is, going into 2019, I'm gana up my game. Ganna stay consistent with 3 workouts a week at 20 minutes. How do I workout? There's plenty of workout videos for women out there.. I used to like Zuzka Light.. but then found Pamela Reif and I'm loving that at the moment. On top of that, we also walk around the park for 3-5km during weekends.<br />
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I would love to start swimming again at least once a week. We started cutting out sugary drinks this year.. I'd continue doing this.<br />
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Most of all, I wanna teach my children the healthy and active lifestyle from when they're little. So it becomes second nature to them.<br />
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So yup I just told you guys my health goal in 2019. Nothing too ambitious. Something to counter mommyhood and life fatigue :)<br />
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Happy 2019. May the new year bring renewed hope and success to all of you.</div>
Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-40150445117637929992018-11-19T15:29:00.000+08:002018-11-19T15:29:18.556+08:0031 Mantra Now that I've entered my 30s, I realize a few things. I'm a bit weary, a bit wiser and more obsessed with certain things over others. I personally am right in the middle of child rearing wonderland and the quest of a super career. These two don't blend well. Modern advice is, don't try to balance life and work. So I'm taking it. I've thrown balance out the window.<br />
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I'm the type of person who writes letters to her future self. Writes goals at the start of a new year. Looking back at goals 2016-2018, I achieved maybe one or two off the list. I would feel kind of depressed. Then I ask myself, why am I not achieving these goals? Is it my choice? When I answered yes, I felt better. So I decided to compromise on some things.<br />
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Then I was thinking, everyone has their challenges. Great people are great despite their challenges. Kind people are kind despite their challenges. My mindset in the past has been.. I need money to be the best I can be. It's shallow but empowering at the time. Roaring 20s. Then I got hit over and over. I started thinking.. what's the lesson in all of this? Is this simply my fate? what is life trying to teach me? Sometimes I cry "why me"?<br />
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I feel humbled and grounded. A little bit wiser, a little bit stronger.<br />
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I never truly appreciated the saying "pressure makes diamonds" before. But I think I understand a little now.<br />
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It's funny you think you know yourself all these while but you keep discovering something when you're forced to dig in. I'm not who I was 5 years ago, or even 2 years ago. It's been a crazy steep learning curve on all sides and I'm just glad I'm still in for the ride.<br />
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So what's my mantra when I turned 30? Be patient and kind. Also, make it happen!Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-19712238771141839802017-11-01T11:41:00.000+08:002017-11-01T11:00:07.545+08:006 Mommy Budget Hacks<p align="justify"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-pF4tsrKfQ_I/Wfk2VDHpIFI/AAAAAAAAGEc/BhaXxfsxpEsMk3dJD_RQbyvilDokHoSfACHMYCw/s1600-h/image1%2B%25281%2529%255B5%255D"><img width="751" height="772" title="image1 (1)" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="image1 (1)" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-IIzOlN8jbOk/Wfk2WAnwJ7I/AAAAAAAAGEg/WLaQYEGZ7fgwHHN8wF4ceL_CR2pR7o7BgCHMYCw/image1%2B%25281%2529_thumb%255B8%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p align="justify">Hi!!! Having three children isn’t a walk in the park. Nor are they friendly for your wallet. That’s why over the years I’ve become very savvy with spending on a budget. I’m still learning and discovering new outlets but so far, I think I’m doing good. I’ve never been this earth friendly until I have 3 kids!</p><p align="justify"><u><strong>1. DIAPERS</strong></u></p><p align="justify">The most budget friendly at this point will be cloth diapers. I thought about it, even purchased a bundle in 2013 but decided against it because it didn’t fit our lifestyle. So I settled with the next best thing – bulk diaper buying. </p><p align="justify">My kids wear Drypers. So far they’ve been very practical and does containment exceptionally well. Currently I’m using 2 different sizes, S and L. So I buy them in a box usually from Lazada or Tesco (online of course). They cost me an average RM75 per box. </p><p>If I have to buy them loose, I’ll pick a packet from 99speedmart. Their prices are the lowest. </p><p><strong><u>2. MILK POWDERS</u></strong></p><p>Ibrahim, my 2nd born is on soy milk, Isomil. An 800g tin would cost around RM80 in Aeon. Different 99Speedmart has different pricing. But so far the cheapest is at chinese supermarkets. My place is near a few of these chinese supermarkets. Their selling price for a tin is RM69. The catch? No debit/credit. Only Cash. </p><p><strong><u>3. ONESIES & CLOTHING</u></strong></p><p>Onesies are a babies staple clothing. My babies at home are in onesies 99% of the time. They’re just so convenient and versatile. I get nice Gap and Next rejects at Plaza Massalam for RM10 each. </p><p><strong><u>4. SECOND HAND ITEMS</u></strong></p><p>I promise this isn’t as icky as it sounds. We Malaysians love shiny new things. Why not go green and get second hand items. You have to be smart about buying 2nd hand. For me personally, I try to choose items that are NEW or LIGHTLY USED. Yes, they exist on the second hand market… and usually at a fraction of a brand new price. NEW/LIGHTLY USED items I’ve purchased before: sneakers, baby rocker, pregnancy waist extender & car seat. </p><p align="justify">Not everything secondhand is good. You’ll have to be picky but I assure you that it’s worth it and very satisfying when you score a great bargain. Some sellers only use things once or twice before deciding they don’t want something. Proceed with caution though, because bargain hunting this way is very addictive. </p><p align="justify">For important items, I always do COD, which means that you go pick up the items personally so you can see the condition with your own eyes. </p><p align="justify">My secondhand bargain port: <strong>Carousell App for nice novelty items, Preloved Facebook group, Preloved baby goods Malaysia Facebook group, Mudah.my, Expat KL group for furnitures</strong></p><p align="justify"><strong><u>5. GENERAL EVERYDAY</u></strong></p><p align="justify">Always try to shop at one place and get a membership. One that allows you to collect points and redeem vouchers sort of thing. I choose <a href="https://eshop.tesco.com.my/groceries/">Tesco</a> because I can either shop physically or online and it allows me to collect points both ways. </p><p align="justify"><strong><u>6. FURNITURE/ELECTRONICS</u></strong></p><p align="justify">Always compare prices on <strong>LAZADA</strong>. They have the best prices hands down. I’ve done comparisons with Seng Heng / Aeon / Courts / Harvey Norman etc but LAZADA takes the cake for cheapest price. This goes for bigger brands like Panasonic, Tefal, KDK. We’ve purchased beds for our homestays on LAZADA. Cheap & arrives within 2 weeks. </p><p align="justify">Do you have any favorite hacks to share? </p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-64090389388011774102017-10-27T11:37:00.001+08:002017-10-27T11:51:57.586+08:00KRABI FOR THE SECOND TIME<p> *This is a backdated post from March 2017*</p><p>We’ve actually been to Krabi twice since I first wrote about it. I can be considered a Krabi family holiday expert now. </p><p>I personally enjoyed the first time we went more because Naila was 2 years old and we get to do more things. The second time around, we also brought along 7 month old Ibrahim and I was 4 months pregnant. It was a bit tiring compared to last time. </p><p>But I think the most question I get asked is “why go to Krabi again?” To answer this, I have to tell a story about one guy me & hubs got to know about in Bali. The guy was from Germany. He was treated like an old friend at the villa. And we found out from the owner that he returns every single year. Because he loves it there. It was so simple and profound. </p><p>It was a mental shift both of us went through in our one month old marriage at the time. So the answer to that question we get so many times is because we love Krabi the first time we went. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-EijpADc64I8/WfKpqoT-fNI/AAAAAAAAGC8/CfV00BpaUyoCaxVgNtAsMqCpCYffQ8i7QCHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_52794"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5279" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5279" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgr9ZdF4FqfdhbIBRlxxH7NzvcdlGmgDnPIppN7rMLTGcPrXZrH3EqnKg7yHziU6vBLjr13YoJTL3W2A5ZxwOKZBSN96PnId81euZRef1BL2PyFpR69llmAop1kRe8HlfXzZzMCauJ2AlYA/?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>This time we decided to go by flight. I’m not sure which one is more tiring because on one hand, we arrived in Krabi within 1.5 hours. But the waiting in the airport took a few hours. </p><p>Naila was excited about the plane ride but Ibrahim couldn’t be bothered. I think more than anything, he was annoyed that we disturbed his sleeping time. </p><p>We arrived early in the morning at 6 am. We went straight to our hotel because we’ve requested for an early check-in beforehand. That morning, we took a rest for a few hours before heading out to eat. We’re so happy to eat at May & Zin again. Love it. The food is as tasty as it was before.</p><p>Our hotel has 2 pools and they’re empty most of the time. So we had fun playing at our ‘private pool’ that afternoon. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-oQneLBbIzyU/WfKpsbhw5MI/AAAAAAAAGDE/b_FuQ3pbyIc5mSEonmcZdtwheDKjsUCKgCHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_53264"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5326" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5326" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-HPPnTKMY1AY/WfKptMaeVQI/AAAAAAAAGDI/VNwr9AL_EoMLywGm4WCnk8bUgnzuY_cRQCHMYCw/IMG_5326_thumb1?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>It was Ibrahim’s first time in a pool. He was 7 months old! He loves it!</p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2OTaOKr9cu9tN-GAjePG8M8jM1MTTZLVpboHsHxgINqmbnHPGYumoZoGT-Ho3fxLULbqduXM5lkKk10aMPUERWUc2sdndOQnPySqAzfow6FGs4VUIWrO3FRmHXO41asB4UmqpEMV-oL4M/s1600-h/IMG_53405"><img width="364" height="484" title="IMG_5340" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5340" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-F1q9HJ71i8M/WfKpuSmu2gI/AAAAAAAAGDQ/wBk2VDwJ-wkniOICT7l8lRFHC7JKQjt4ACHMYCw/IMG_5340_thumb2?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p align="justify">One for the camera!</p><p align="justify">The second day, we decided to go island hopping. Just If you opt for the normal boat, there could easily be more than 15 people on the boat and you would have to follow their schedule. </p><p align="justify">Since we’re totting a 3 year old and a 7 month old, we decided that private boat is the way to go. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-P0f8lTJfqL8/WfKpvHsDFSI/AAAAAAAAGDU/_GDedGpKI4YxJoxBlfNDlBb89ePF_Du8QCHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_5376"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5376" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5376" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-N3S-6MJ37OQ/WfKpv9bidBI/AAAAAAAAGDY/uF_buGl1Z_IBYENMQIZzbG1dl9vBYJbHACHMYCw/IMG_5376_thumb%255B1%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-qcYaiZCM3yI/WfKpwpT-heI/AAAAAAAAGDc/4gSHTQLqIxMntRyaoKZKjIakrqqXKK-2ACHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_5443"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5443" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5443" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-r0w-z8zmsps/WfKpxaneQ4I/AAAAAAAAGDg/OB07HypVMmokobyzaWujv4DQ6RZ04bE1QCHMYCw/IMG_5443_thumb%255B1%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>One of the stops was Hong Island. The kids loved playing in the sea. They enjoyed the sand. The limestone hills were magnificent. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-nkYtK1DUQD4/WfKpyMUn8oI/AAAAAAAAGDk/TKgF39zQcJgTaVXCCo_BCMc2EEWXdZMwACHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_5442"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5442" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5442" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRaYz0rt3L04k7j8DNk6mY2hsbDvSVOsQxcBW2SEoFVwygdYLWdtNPuWwC2vgqfnTXZ_lYI64uyX1C0HNhWeR66CokRFwxP8aB_hBgZCf43AoXMjVW_yOQQLLQDaI6izQLA5j9pYez7an7/?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>At Hong island is also where we swam with the fish. Naila was a bit spooked out by the fishes following and poking her. I think it was the flowery swimming suit that attracted the fish.</p><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEillXweOcBgodxAyXzdYaKtlpsHGXMSkogWLX4ujglagCH2JZScxZ9WoR2QYc-P3er5sW391cvUBssckhUFB25mCwjrAub2TvLwIuwC1izQ5eks8QMHDvzhg_iPdKQooXZ1KeEBKSNMWXqv/s1600-h/IMG_5369%255B4%255D"><img width="364" height="484" title="IMG_5369" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5369" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-9QGiEZSTPbE/WfKp0M9i_8I/AAAAAAAAGDw/1qzH6d0Wma0Pc2np3LWni88rtnvULN-QwCHMYCw/IMG_5369_thumb%255B2%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>Ibrahim’s first boat ride. He was behaving so good. Totally enjoyed the wind blowing his hair. We spent the whole day outside on the boat. Luckily the boat was shaded and we brought some snacks on board. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-8N4hgaoIRfg/WfKp09AHsGI/AAAAAAAAGD0/O964MLGBg8YrtJWqjcijOc5wXQ9w3FeegCHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_5401%255B1%255D"><img width="364" height="484" title="IMG_5401" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5401" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-dMncMpdg8dg/WfKp1qVMV4I/AAAAAAAAGD4/LgLa-zxbJeQ23F4dvL6VaUWtQl1YfqQxACHMYCw/IMG_5401_thumb%255B2%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p align="justify">Towards the end of the day, we were all so tired. Just going with a baby is a lot of work. Add that I was pregnant. I wouldn’t do it again under those circumstances. I really won’t. I’ll revisit the possibility when the kids aren’t in diapers anymore at least. </p><p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9mbRKCsB15B6xOZ5eiVAnz6qTRPplFEJoZBfAOiOK7vf3a8QvBg6YrqZsnFcpApgULBc8F39yhhmpB4GoGSos5seB8nsyzPvKZxHSQKfBKOZPlV4htsRhH_Jm3-6z73UHZyIR6HRxGLpL/s1600-h/IMG_5402"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5402" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5402" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-fIsnIQIIuG0/WfKp311ufuI/AAAAAAAAGEA/V45DqI6BziA0hlOebStSqjf3jbkcZFwCgCHMYCw/IMG_5402_thumb%255B1%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>Here’s Naila really SLEEPING on the plank. Baby Ibrahim was also sleeping on our way back to shore. </p><p>On the third day, we hung out at the hotel. We ordered hotel food in the afternoon. Sunda Hotel food is good. The breakfast buffet is good, ala carte is also good. No complains there. </p><p>Hubs went on a diving trip to Koh Phi Phi island. This time around he said the water visibility is great, unlike the last time. It’s supposed to be one of the best times to dive when we went in March. </p><p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-hdOqgGaPn8M/WfKp4jq0x3I/AAAAAAAAGEE/K_LZwjTB6jcwfJpyXquTb2nDhGW3MpmnQCHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_5342"><img width="580" height="772" title="IMG_5342" style="display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_5342" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-UbGSzxbtGrE/WfKp5t1kBgI/AAAAAAAAGEI/X3MjKgUU91YquxWLrteBEDxqkfC0vJDXQCHMYCw/IMG_5342_thumb%255B1%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a> </p><p>Ibrahim ready to spend the day in Krabi. That night, we went to the night market in Krabi Town riding a tuk tuk. The drive to Krabi Town took about 30 minutes. The tuk tuk was just a motorcycle connected with a contraption that allows 4 adult passengers to be seated. It was very windy to say the least. </p><p>Upon arriving at the market, I carried Ibrahim in the carrier and Naila was strapped in the stroller. The market had lots of interesting trinkets as should a Thailand market have. And tasty street food. </p><p>The best thing about being in Krabi is the HALAL FOOD. You can eat anything because they’re halal and cooked by muslims. Halal everywhere. I love it! One of the reasons we LOVE Krabi. </p><p>The market itself is small size. You can make a round within 30 minutes. We went back after having our snacks. (sweet potato balls yum. Come to think of it, I’m ganna make it for my kids) </p><p>So on the final days in Krabi, we strolled along the beach alot, enjoying the sea, sand and sun. </p><p>Krabi might be an annual thing for our family, because it’s just super friendly for us muslims. It’s different, you get to be in another country, enjoying the beautiful scenery and the food is superb. Last but not least, Krabi is very affordable. I guarantee it will not break your bank. </p><p>I think that’s the end of my 2nd trip to Krabi story! Thanks for reading! Till next time. </p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-22144078484987611652017-10-21T00:03:00.001+08:002017-10-21T00:03:16.326+08:00Wonder in These Years<p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-ph64G9g3Cwg/WeoePi07nOI/AAAAAAAAF_Y/HBmkDwcqYyk-Kl-R9jkTldhqk0i8EiRaACHMYCw/s1600-h/IMG_9221%255B6%255D"><img width="640" height="768" title="IMG_9221" style="border: 0px currentcolor; border-image: none; display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="IMG_9221" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-KnD1wb-NWgM/WeoeQGK1z0I/AAAAAAAAF_c/6enBzUyt8b0cYOW8IccXQ71kK6VLoPUiQCHMYCw/IMG_9221_thumb%255B8%255D?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p><p>We’re starting to settle into a normal routine. We get up around 6.30-7am. Everybody has breakfast, shower. Hubs leave around 7.30 – 8am. I send Naila to school around 8.30am. I started taking Ibrahim with me lately so after sending Naila, we sometimes walk downstairs at the playground area. </p><p>Then I ask my maid, Dewi to play downstairs with Ibrahim. I put baby to sleep. I’m starting to exercise a bit but I don’t have a fixed routine yet. I start doing work on the laptop. Follow ups, putting up ads, attending to enquiries. On days that I have to go out, I’ll maneuver around that timing. </p><p>Sometimes I leave Naila in school. I try not to leave all 3 kids with my maid for more than 2 hours. Sometimes I’ll take one of the babies with me for viewings or meetings or inspections. If I plan to leave the baby at home, I’ll pump milk in the morning. I don’t collect frozen expressed milk, only a few bags in the freezer for emergency too long outings. So far I haven’t used them for baby. </p><p>I usually pick up Naila at 12pm. The kids nap in the afternoon except for Naila who usually does her colouring/play doll house/lego/sticker book or ipad time. Afternoons are usually varied depends on whether I leave house or not that day. </p><p>By 4pm I usually wrap up my laptop time though I still answer calls or messages. I take them down to the playground while my maid cooks. 6-6.30pm we have dinner. Bath time. Story time. Mengamuk time. If I’m not too tired we do our sleeping time routine.. play shadows, read books or telling stories with a flashlight in the dark. Actually this is only possible if the baby is asleep or he’s surprisingly quiet. By 8.30pm, lights off. </p><p>The kids will usually be asleep by 9pm. If I don’t accidently fall asleep as well, I’ll wake up to update my listings, make a to do list for tomorrow. Then if it’s still early, I watch a movie or tv series. I gotta be honest. I love my nights. I wouldn’t be able to survive without my nights!</p><p>The days are long, but the years are short. </p><p>I still remember the days with Naila alone, and thinking “this is the hardest thing I’ve ever done”. Obviously I haven’t met Ibrahim and Hassan yet at that point! Honestly if I see other moms out there, I’ll be like “how the heck does she manage?” I sometimes ask myself the same question but the answer is that.. you just do. </p><p>It’s one day at a time.. Suddenly everybody is grown up. Naila is turning 4. Ibrahim has started walking. Hassan has started smiling. 2 months ago Hassan was still a bun in the oven! </p><p>I will never forget these wonderful years. Tiring, but wonderful. </p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2863062918245805420.post-81894077788776240222017-09-22T21:49:00.001+08:002017-09-22T21:49:36.095+08:00Pantang with three<p><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-ziroP3vjWEQ/WcUU694rYPI/AAAAAAAAF2w/2g7gHF5rAoE8lHQZ_5RL-05_lZJfSGK6wCHMYCw/s1600-h/ibrahim-smile4"><img width="1028" height="682" title="ibrahim smile" style="border-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-left: 0px; display: inline; background-image: none;" alt="ibrahim smile" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTDuwW_1tVLAju7ioxXkS3kIjbuRnEv3oKNmkjpoZvckBwhzZy0qzFO2S5-1UHhcRifOegT-T_Q1ZGIpamEcmmz_YOm8-1eKONdqaY_KBZZpRI45RxGjfqVHhNliSkVVxeHKUbMF9eDpWc/?imgmax=800" border="0"></a></p> <p>I’m not going to attempt to write a backstory to all this. As it is now, I currently have an almost pre-schooler, a toddler and a newborn. I’m nearing the end of pantang but it wasn’t much of a pantang to be honest. I broke all the rules of pantang. Not wearing socks? Checked. Go up and down the stairs? Checked. No urut? Checked. Carry heavy objects? Checked. The heavy object is actually my one year old bumbling Ibrahim who’s 9.5kg. </p> <p>Aiyaya… </p> <p>As my number of births go up, I start to have a different perspective on pantang. Right now, for me berpantang is being comfortable, enjoying my time with the babies, eating healthy food most of the time and funny enough, catching up on afternoon naps. I have a newborn and a toddler.. can’t say I’m catching up on nighttime sleep. </p> <p>The first week was a breeze. (My confinement is always at mom’s house and we have a maid. It was very manageable because my mom basically insists that I do nothing at all other than to tend to the newborn) </p> <p>The second week was when the horror started. Naila came back from school with a viral fever that turned out to be HMFD. Then, surprise.. Ibrahim caught it. So bye-bye sleep. He couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat and can’t even drink his milk. It was horrible! My poor baby. </p> <p>The worst part is when I cannot touch or hold him because we didn’t want it to spread to the baby. HMFD is worse than chicken pox. I mean the effect on him. He was crying and wanted to be carried all the time. </p> <p>But luckily the baby didn’t catch it. </p><p>By now nothing is shocking anymore. I’ve become the unfazed mother. </p><p>Daughter HMFD with 2 babies in the house? Manageable.</p><p>One year old crying asking to be picked up while holding newborn? Manageable. </p><p>3 kids crying for milk at the same time? Manageable. </p><p>I’m not saying that I’m doing it all alone.. I’ve got mom, dad, husband, bibik and my two brothers occasionally. So it’s VERY manageable. I’ll say compared to when I was alone handling only one baby. That was harder because I’ve got no one to pass the baby to. </p><p>My pantang days are almost over. We’re ganna have to settle into the new normal. I never ever in a billion years imagine that I’ll be a mom of three by 30 but it’s always funny how things turn out, right?</p>Adilahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10376476681600316803noreply@blogger.com1